Matthew's Journal

Hmm - I know what you mean. However I've also realised recently that a lot of us tend to rush headfirst into relationships. Just because circumstances make you take it slowly isn't necessarily a bad thing. I actually think it's a positive and with me it certainly is the first time I've managed to go slow. Takes a bit of getting used to and having confidence in yourself and in the relationship. I think enjoying the time you get to yourself and going slowly into the relationship makes you less likely to fall into co-dependency.