It is quite correct that the dessert cutlery (and indeed glasses) should never be laid at the start of the meal, even where dessert is to be eaten at the same table as dinner. However, by 'pudding' I believe Matthew means the sweet course, rather than dessert, and that cutlery is ordinarily laid at the start of the meal.
I'm not sure what the formalities would be in the shocking case of a meal that finished at the entremet chaud and omitted dessert entirely.
I'd complain loudly to all concerned if I were you. Spoon and fork in hand, drum on the table and chant "We want more" until you get your just desserts.
(NB: This may be a lie)
Which reminds me, I have several people I owe a dinner to (including you) and should really get around to organising something and finding out people's availability.
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I'm not sure what the formalities would be in the shocking case of a meal that finished at the entremet chaud and omitted dessert entirely.
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I'd complain loudly to all concerned if I were you. Spoon and fork in hand, drum on the table and chant "We want more" until you get your just desserts.
(NB: This may be a lie)
Which reminds me, I have several people I owe a dinner to (including you) and should really get around to organising something and finding out people's availability.